The human mind and the human behavior have been a mystery to the Scientist and Psychologists alike since the past many centuries. We might have evolved significantly in these fields but are still not able to understand or predict how the human mind works and may work in a given circumstance.
Where is the distinction between the head and the heart ? How does the head decide what part of it's thoughts are influenced by whom ? As in, how does the head decide where to stop getting influenced by the heart in the matters of the mind ?
Confused ? So am I.
I am not able to understand how the human mind perceives and understands relationships. Not my relationships with my friends, but rather someone else's relationships with someone else. I know it might seem like a pretty weird thing at first as to why someone would want to understand someone else's relationship with a completely different third person. What I am trying to say is, how does our mind judge relationships ? How does it judge the relationship of two different people where I, myself am not involved. People assert with so much confidence that some person x can go to any level to help some person y, without even knowing the dynamics of the relationship between the two of them. Similarly, why do people try to create a divide between two people by trying to pollute their minds ? My doubt is rather a bit different, it is not the fact as to why people try to do such stuff, it is more of the fact that how do people believe that doing such stuff will be of any use ? Are you able to relate to what I am saying at any level at all ? I am only trying to say that why do people try to hamper someone else's relationship with a completely different third person for any reason whatsoever.
Negativity is so much more contagious then positivity. People catch on to it so quickly, but refuse to do the same with positivity. We get angry on others so quickly. It doesn't even take a minute for us to get mad at someone and be present with an entire list of expectations that ought to have been fulfilled.
We even be unreasonable. Many a times, we love being unreasonable. What we forget is the fact that we may hurt close ones in the process of being in this "difficult" mode. It's okay to be difficult. It's okay to be sad. It's okay to shout on people for things that matter to you. What isn't okay is the habit of jumping to conclusions and trying to keep everything bottled up inside. We tend to take small things for granted, things which if weren't there would have probably ruined us completely.
That friend who refuses to leave your side despite your shouting "leave me alone, leave me alone " ?
That friend who tries to resolve a dispute with you even though you were being rude to them for the nth time ?
That friend who listens to whatever it is that is bothering you ?
That friend who is by your side in the thick and thin ?
Just a few instances. I could come up with an entire list. I think you got my point though. Be grateful for these people. Cause they care for you. They do now. They always will.
In this fast, accelerated world it is truly difficult to find people who genuinely care for you. If there is even a single person who does that for you, don't let them go. Hold on to them and do your best to not hurt them.
I don't know what I'm trying to say, but as the title suggests it's just "Random Clutter".
At the end of the day, your relationships matter. They matter the most. Just cause we all are humans, we all feel and we love being loved.
Pay them the required attention.
Give time to people.
Respect them.
Love them.
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